What Do Women Really Want?
What Do Women Really Want?
FarFromAverage7866
FarFromAverage7866
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Jan 22, 2022
Before the "thought police" come in barging with their comments about how "this post is only my perception." Well, I have indeed written this. But, if you can make it till the end of the post without getting a heart attack, then read all the studies that I have linked at the end to support my "claims." Also, let me clarify Reddit is not a truthful representation of the real world. Reddit is a leftist platform, plàgued and fueled by lìberal views, where you have to play the "politically correct" card, before the "wrong think" police gets you bàn-ned. So, majority of it's users live in a fantasy world being fake to themselves, and giving unrealistic advices to the users on here to make them "feel better", rather than saying the harsh truth because it will "offend" them. Let me give you an example.
If I was to go on the subs that talk about marriage and if I was to say, "I want a strong independent women, that is a open fèminíst who fights for women's rights, and me being a empowering male because it's 2022, I will give her the freedom to do whatever she likes." I can bet you, this statement of mine would be upvoted to the 7th heaven. While if I was to say, "I want a submissive women who is obedient, and knows her place in the home" my statement would be downvoted to the grounds. On this platform, you have to lie and be "fake" in order to be heard. People will say the most dumbest politically correct stuff for "karma" or "internet points." Even if I get 100k internet "karma", it's not paying my bills 🤣🤣. If a woman was to say on here, "She wants a assertive male who shows her place, and wants to be a trad wife" she'll be called a "pick me" and be brainwashed by the 30 something year old unmarried miserable feminists. While if the same woman was to say, "She wants your average nice guy, and how she only cares about his personality" her statement will be upvoted to the moon. By who tho? By all the men, who live in a fantasy world of where they think, their "personality" and "niceness" will get them women. But in the real world, outside of Reddit fantasy tale, it doesn't work that way. The real world is not a fantasy, which you wish it was.
So coming back to the title of this post, the question then arises what do women really want? You as a man, imagine yourself as a woman for a second, and put yourself in their shoes. Imagine you're a 5'3 petite blonde, who has a boring life and who doesn't know shi about how the real world works. You as a woman in this case, what would you do? You would want to accompany and latch onto a "adventurous life experienced guy" having a crazy up and down emotional rollercoaster ride, and being part of his thrilling lifestyle, because this is a far better option than your old boring life.
But the reality is, the men who approach you, (still imagine yourself as the 5'2 blonde) are all the same. Meaning, their only purpose in life is to "impress" you and to make you center of their attention, when you know you aren't worthy enough of all this. And they still keep on showering you with roses and fake compliments. You deep down instinctively know, all these guys are the same because they're playing the "I'm a nice guy and I'm obligated to get her" card to get in bed with you, and you know they aren't genuine. You know they have hidden ulterior motives (which is to get in bed with you) behind their fake curtain of "niceness" and kissing your àss. And rather than being upfront about it, they play all these games and you can naturally read through it, bc your 6th sense is strong when it comes to choosing a mate to have kids with. (Scientifically proven). What would you do to all these guys? I can bet you, you would reject all of them.
You instinctively know you have no experience of the real world, and have no actual value to provide other than your wet hole, which you know guys will do literally anything for. You know why women are masters at manipulation? Because they know, majority of the guys are desperate and will do anything, for what's between their legs. And they use this for their advantage, and I don't blame them. If I was a woman, I would probably do the same.
But then one day, out of all the "fake nice guys", you see a different guy who's not desperate to get in your panties, like all other men who are worshipping you. You see a guy who's doing what he likes, is a rebel, lives life on his own terms, doesn't fear anything or suck up to anyone, doesn't put you on the pedestal, is up for any challenge, and he will not live his life to "please" you, and knows your true worth, what would you do? You would be like, "He's different than all the other fake guys out there, and has an interesting life, and will not hype up my value which I'm not worthy of, just because I naturally came into this world with a wet hole and a set of tì-ts." And you would naturally want to be part of his life, and accompany him in his journey. Your subconscious mind will make you tingle in ways, which you have never experienced before. Why? Because this guy is truly different from all other men out there.
To sum it up in one sentence, women want a strong, dominating, adventurous guy who isn't hesitant to take any risks, is cold stone stoic who doesn't get emotionally affected by anything, and dominates her properly to let her know who's incharge and the "man" of the family, while still having a pure heart of gold. This is it. The studies I have linked, will make you come up with the same conclusion, especially, for the people out there who haven't seen or experienced the real world.
Now, to the guys who say it's "Chad only" bro. Well, who is Chad? "Chad" is basically a genetically gifted male who is a 10/10 in the looks department. I have known few "Chads." One might think these men are real models. But some of them sucked with women, even while being so genetically gifted.
Why? Because either they were socially introverted and didn't know how to pick up on her signals, or they didn't know how to make the next move. If there is a 5/10 guy, but he's overly confident, knows what he's doing, women will rather want to be with him vs a guy who is 10/10, but he doesn't know what he's doing.
Back in my first year of university before this whole plàndemìc, I took this job at a very elite place, and it was also frequented by some celebs. (Celebs were not too famous, but somewhat known.) There was a waiter there, who one would call a "chad." Every girl wanted him when they saw him. But this guy was socially introverted. He had many hot waitresses hitting up on him and he wanted them too, but because of his lack of social skills and charisma, he didn't get them. He would talk and stutter and be so nervous, women would be put off by this. There was also a dishwasher there, who one would consider a "jerk" with very average looks. But "surprisingly", this guy was piping down the waitresses, even while being a dishwasher. What this guy do? Nothing. From what I remember, he had that "idgaf" attitude and said what he wanted, and was just himself all the time. I'd never seen any person in my life, more confident and blunt than this guy. He was the most realest. That attracted women naturally towards him, because he was "different."
We as humans, we're always inclined to take the easy route. Majority of us cannot handle the harsh truth. Remember the saying, "Women don't love you, but they love how you make them feel?" It's that emotional rollercoaster ride that keeps on her toes, which she can't get enough of. If you go on those marriage subs, women are giving the same advices to men, to be "nice" and what not. Is it working for any of them? If you really believe in their "advices" then I'm sorry. You haven't seen the real world. Women want drama, entertainment, and want something to talk about. Their currency is attention, and the less you give of it, the more they can't get enough of. Never take what women say seriously. Only look at their actions, and then, do your own due diligence. Judge them from their actions, not their words. Anyone can say anything, but what really matters is what that person really does regards to his action.
Women were made to sèrveè and follow men. Since the dawn of time, men have protected women from the enemy tribes and invading warriors and in exchange, women have provided sex and children to their man. You have all these women saying, "No, women are independent and don't need no man and so on." Well, you know that book "50 Shades of grey?" It has sold over 150 million copies bought by women. And you should already know, what it talks about. Getting Domìnated and being owned for a lack of better word, is in every women's primal instinct. Why? Because she a women, and she's naturally submissive. But... to the right guy. The same fèminist who's "hating" on men all day, in the dark depths of the night she's willing to get chained/tied up/handcuffed and be shown her place by the right guy. When it comes to her primal instinct and biological urge, she'll forget all the fèmìnist nonsense in a flash. Fèmìnists are the biggest Hypocrites I've ever met in my life. Fèminism was the biggest shi test known to mankind, and as long as you don't take them seriously, you'll be good.
Do you really believe that unmarried 30 something year old "strong and independent women" who is at a "high position" at her workplace, is happy deep down? Nope. She's low-key miserable. Not me saying, read them statistics below. She deeply wishes she can go home to her children greeting her with a huge smile, saying "Hey mama" and then hugging her kids, and showing them affection. And she deeply wishes, she could serve her man in whatever way he wants her to. But the catch is, as long as the man is strong, dominating, stoic and on his purpose. Women always want to be beneath their man, and in his protection no matter how much "independence" they claim. The world can go to hell, or become a "matriarchal" society, but deep down, a women's primal and biological instincts will always be the same.
Now before the thought police go like, "What his source?" It must be "tRuSt mE BrO!" For you jokers, I have linked all the sources to support my "claims."
Nice guys finish last study. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/A:1025894203368
Short term relationships vs Long Term, What do women look for in ltr vs str? Alpha/beta etc https://www.vice.com/en/article/ae5xn4/why-women-want-to-fuck-bad-boys
Women rate men in either 2 categories https://bpspsychub.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1348/000712609X435733
Hybristophillia (Why serial killers have received thousands of lover letters in jail, and what makes them so attractive to women?) https://www.aetv.com/real-crime/why-are-some-women-sexually-attracted-to-serial-killers
Career women are more likely to be single and depressed in the long run than women who married early. https://www.elle.com/culture/career-politics/news/a19959/female-bosses-depression/
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2033806/Depression-women-doubles-1970s-try-all.html
https://www.yourtango.com/2014241436/why-powerful-women-are-more-likely-be-depressed-than-men
Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy has sold 100m copies worldwide
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u/Haani07
This post is absolute bś.
To sum it up in one sentence, women want a strong, dominating, adventurous guy who isn't hesitant to take any risks, is cold stone stoic who doesn't get emotionally affected by anything, and dominates her properly to let her know who's incharge
If you do this and you're an average looking guy she will considèr you a creep and if you try to "dominate her" she will report you for sèxual harassment. This is possibly the WORST piece of advice on this sub. GUYS NEVER TRY THIS.
If there is a 5/10 guy, but he's overly confident, knows what he's doing, women will rather want to be with him vs a guy who is 10/10, but he doesn't know what he's doing.
Cope. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The only reason why this post got upvoted so much is because it sells hope to average looking guys as if they have a chance. When the truth is they have no chance besides left over women. That's their fate.
All my colleagues who are average looking in their 30s and 40s are single and pay for sèx because that's the only way they can get women. Sure some date here and there but the women they are with are uglier than some transsexùals. Idc I'm just being dead honest. You would never date a fat, short (karen) haircut woman with tattoos who is in her 40s and consider that some sort of accomplishment. Thats the women they are with..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Whereas one of my other colleagues who is also in his early 30s, but happens to be 6'5 and above average in overall looks, managed to pull an attractive fit blonde waitress at work and they have been dating for 3 years now.
And his personality is not even that pronounced. He doesn't need to "dominate" anyone. He is not the most charismatic guy, but he is polite and has good manners and has a decent sense of humour. Nothing special or "different". In fact you can call him a truly nice guy. The exact opposite of the advice you are recommending.
Average guys can only pay for sèx or marry leftover women. That's the reason why average guys try to earn money to get married. Money is the only thing they have to offer women.
Edit: The only anomaly I have genuinely found to this is guys who thugmaxx (drùg dealing more specifically). They can pull average/above average younger looking women despite being buťť uglý. Now if you want to do that, I have no words for you. But women do find it attractive, and I also have no words for them either. Women are truly deficient in intellect and religion.
u/FarFromAverage7866
When the truth is they have no chance besides left over women. That's their fate.
Of course, and let me clarify this post was Not meant for finding a "righteous women for marriage." As we all know, the real fate of Muslim men especially in the West is marrying a former hoè, who is broken and who he will never be able to keep "happy." This is the fate for most. And they may get divorced ràped or will be in a miserable sèxless marriage with her using sex as a weapon.
All my colleagues
This is subjective to your pov. I've served hundreds of tables. Majority of them weren't married but rather were bf/gf. And these guys were not necessarily "chad" and their gf was not like your tùrk, no comparison with her 😂😂😂 but these girls were average. Who one would say "decent." Were these guys the "safe" option in her eyes? I don't know. But they looked "happy."
Average guys can only pay for sèx or marry leftover women. That's the reason why average guys try to earn money to get married. Money is the only thing they have to offer women.
Of course. But.. I remember there used to be lots of singles. And majority of these girls were in college and university. In their late teens and early 20s. At this time, they don't care about money. Their material needs are met thanks to Daddies money who's funding her college and other things. At this time she wants to bounce on "alpha" còck and wants drama, entertainment and that "emotional rollercoaster. And in your edited comment, you mentioned "thug" Maxx while I don't know if their BFS were "thugg Maxx" but they sure were plate maxxing and keeping their chick's on the "edge."
The 20/80 rule always comes into play. But these 20% of top men, all aren't "Chad's" while they may still have "status" and money. Take Harvey Weinstein for example. Guy was fat and ùgly, yet he was sleeping with A list celebs. Why? Because he had status and power, and these chicks wanted roles. But where he went wrong is, when metoo came along, and the chick's snaked on him. Why? Because they weren't truly sexually attracted to him. And that's were most Muslim men get snaked. They marry thinking their doctor degree, or their higher salary will keep her panties wet, when we all know that's cope strategy. They're fùcked big time.
At the end of the day, sexual attraction matters the most while the r-p "gurus" claim game works, and it may, but it never beat "chad."
but the women they are with are uglier than some transsexùals
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
u/Haani07
This is subjective to your pov. I've served hundreds of tables. Majority of them weren't married but rather were bf/gf. And these guys were not necessarily "chad"
You are aware that some girls use guys for free dinner right? A date doesn't mean anything and unless you spoke to each and every one of them, you have no idea what age they actually are. They could be in their late 20s to early 30s but they look younger, as is the case with many women due to things like makeup. In which case, if they are indeed older, then those guys are dating leftover women. Which is my point.
Who one would say "decent." Were these guys the "safe" option in her eyes? I don't know.
It's always the case. That's what's happening.
Take Harvey Weinstein for example. Guy was fat and ùgly, yet he was sleeping with A list celebs. Why?
Because he was a beta buxx that's why. LOOOL.
The biggest issue I have with your post is you essentially saying a 5/10 guy with "game" (you didn't say it like that but you're speaking the same concept. It's the same PUA bś: just be confident bro. And guys only upvoted this because you gave them false hope.) can do better than a 10/10 guy who is socially inept.
Dude, I know guys who were literally mutes and because they were 8.5s women would flock to them. They had zero personality and were in fact nervous.
If you're truly a 10/10 you don't need to say anything. Women come to you. In fact, YouTube experiments have shown that a Chadfish account on tinder had a bio stating he molèsts kids. And they would even mention that in the messages to the girls they were chatting to. The girls didn't care. They still wanted him because Chad doesn't need a personality. He just needs to exist.
u/FarFromAverage7866
You are aware that some girls use guys for free dinner right?
Of course. There was a study done where women admitted that 70% of them, went on dates for free dinner. They had no actual desire in the guy himself.
Chad or that "alpha" doesn't have to go through hoops and hurdles. Dinners, gifts, spending thousands to get her in bed, is a beta billy move. And as your other post, "girls pay for chad" that indeed is true.
Unfortunately, if a man is going to marry in the West and he's a Muslim, he has this wrong idea that his "money, Deen, personality, or niceness" will make her marriage "strong" with him, and this is the biggest bs I've ever heard. Her exes in university, didn't have to spend 50k on a wedding or outrageous amounts of Mahr to get in bed with her. She just got with em, because she taught he was "hawt." I don't understand how Muslim men cannot understand this. Maybe, it's them being overly sheltered and not seeing the real world, and they have that "unicorn out there" mentality.
The biggest issue I have with your post is you essentially saying a 5/10 guy with "game"
Indeed, and thinking back now as I was writing in the "flow" this sentence was cope. 5/10 with "game" or whatever "confidence" will get women, but it will be broken alpha widowed leftovers. Not the women you would desire a strong relationship with.
In fact, YouTube experiments have shown that a Chadfish account on tinder had a bio stating he molèsts kids. And they would even mention that in the messages to the girls they were chatting to. The girls didn't care. They still wanted him because Chad doesn't need a personality. He just needs to exist.
Of course. That's why "hawt" serial killers have gotten thousands of love letters while being in jail because women get off to them. If you're "chad" you can do whatever, and you'll have to just "exist." Sèxual attraction can never be negotiated with anything, no amount of "game" "confidence" "money" or whatever. While the thùgs, majority are the biggest fakes. But they do manage to pull, but it's never long term. Either he gets put in prison, or killed or, he just keeps spinning plates.
u/Haani07
Nice one bro. I agree with this.
The truth is nature is brutal. Islam tries to create some order by prohibiting certain things and teaching us to control our nafs (the animalistic side of our nature).
But today we live in a free society where there is nothing to control us. And so we see nature running wild and free.
If you're an average looking man, either looksmaxx by doing haram things or just be single. That's the only option.
Of course you can marry back home. But if you intend to bring her to the West then prepare for the shìtshow to start again. If not with your relationship, then definitely your kids. They are fùcked. That's the truth.
Before the "thought police" come in barging with their comments about how "this post is only my perception." Well, I have indeed written this. But, if you can make it till the end of the post without getting a heart attack, then read all the studies that I have linked at the end to support my "claims." Also, let me clarify Reddit is not a truthful representation of the real world. Reddit is a leftist platform, plàgued and fueled by lìberal views, where you have to play the "politically correct" card, before the "wrong think" police gets you bàn-ned. So, majority of it's users live in a fantasy world being fake to themselves, and giving unrealistic advices to the users on here to make them "feel better", rather than saying the harsh truth because it will "offend" them. Let me give you an example.
If I was to go on the subs that talk about marriage and if I was to say, "I want a strong independent women, that is a open fèminíst who fights for women's rights, and me being a empowering male because it's 2022, I will give her the freedom to do whatever she likes." I can bet you, this statement of mine would be upvoted to the 7th heaven. While if I was to say, "I want a submissive women who is obedient, and knows her place in the home" my statement would be downvoted to the grounds. On this platform, you have to lie and be "fake" in order to be heard. People will say the most dumbest politically correct stuff for "karma" or "internet points." Even if I get 100k internet "karma", it's not paying my bills 🤣🤣. If a woman was to say on here, "She wants a assertive male who shows her place, and wants to be a trad wife" she'll be called a "pick me" and be brainwashed by the 30 something year old unmarried miserable feminists. While if the same woman was to say, "She wants your average nice guy, and how she only cares about his personality" her statement will be upvoted to the moon. By who tho? By all the men, who live in a fantasy world of where they think, their "personality" and "niceness" will get them women. But in the real world, outside of Reddit fantasy tale, it doesn't work that way. The real world is not a fantasy, which you wish it was.
So coming back to the title of this post, the question then arises what do women really want? You as a man, imagine yourself as a woman for a second, and put yourself in their shoes. Imagine you're a 5'3 petite blonde, who has a boring life and who doesn't know shi about how the real world works. You as a woman in this case, what would you do? You would want to accompany and latch onto a "adventurous life experienced guy" having a crazy up and down emotional rollercoaster ride, and being part of his thrilling lifestyle, because this is a far better option than your old boring life.
But the reality is, the men who approach you, (still imagine yourself as the 5'2 blonde) are all the same. Meaning, their only purpose in life is to "impress" you and to make you center of their attention, when you know you aren't worthy enough of all this. And they still keep on showering you with roses and fake compliments. You deep down instinctively know, all these guys are the same because they're playing the "I'm a nice guy and I'm obligated to get her" card to get in bed with you, and you know they aren't genuine. You know they have hidden ulterior motives (which is to get in bed with you) behind their fake curtain of "niceness" and kissing your àss. And rather than being upfront about it, they play all these games and you can naturally read through it, bc your 6th sense is strong when it comes to choosing a mate to have kids with. (Scientifically proven). What would you do to all these guys? I can bet you, you would reject all of them.
You instinctively know you have no experience of the real world, and have no actual value to provide other than your wet hole, which you know guys will do literally anything for. You know why women are masters at manipulation? Because they know, majority of the guys are desperate and will do anything, for what's between their legs. And they use this for their advantage, and I don't blame them. If I was a woman, I would probably do the same.
But then one day, out of all the "fake nice guys", you see a different guy who's not desperate to get in your panties, like all other men who are worshipping you. You see a guy who's doing what he likes, is a rebel, lives life on his own terms, doesn't fear anything or suck up to anyone, doesn't put you on the pedestal, is up for any challenge, and he will not live his life to "please" you, and knows your true worth, what would you do? You would be like, "He's different than all the other fake guys out there, and has an interesting life, and will not hype up my value which I'm not worthy of, just because I naturally came into this world with a wet hole and a set of tì-ts." And you would naturally want to be part of his life, and accompany him in his journey. Your subconscious mind will make you tingle in ways, which you have never experienced before. Why? Because this guy is truly different from all other men out there.
To sum it up in one sentence, women want a strong, dominating, adventurous guy who isn't hesitant to take any risks, is cold stone stoic who doesn't get emotionally affected by anything, and dominates her properly to let her know who's incharge and the "man" of the family, while still having a pure heart of gold. This is it. The studies I have linked, will make you come up with the same conclusion, especially, for the people out there who haven't seen or experienced the real world.
Now, to the guys who say it's "Chad only" bro. Well, who is Chad? "Chad" is basically a genetically gifted male who is a 10/10 in the looks department. I have known few "Chads." One might think these men are real models. But some of them sucked with women, even while being so genetically gifted.
Why? Because either they were socially introverted and didn't know how to pick up on her signals, or they didn't know how to make the next move. If there is a 5/10 guy, but he's overly confident, knows what he's doing, women will rather want to be with him vs a guy who is 10/10, but he doesn't know what he's doing.
Back in my first year of university before this whole plàndemìc, I took this job at a very elite place, and it was also frequented by some celebs. (Celebs were not too famous, but somewhat known.) There was a waiter there, who one would call a "chad." Every girl wanted him when they saw him. But this guy was socially introverted. He had many hot waitresses hitting up on him and he wanted them too, but because of his lack of social skills and charisma, he didn't get them. He would talk and stutter and be so nervous, women would be put off by this. There was also a dishwasher there, who one would consider a "jerk" with very average looks. But "surprisingly", this guy was piping down the waitresses, even while being a dishwasher. What this guy do? Nothing. From what I remember, he had that "idgaf" attitude and said what he wanted, and was just himself all the time. I'd never seen any person in my life, more confident and blunt than this guy. He was the most realest. That attracted women naturally towards him, because he was "different."
We as humans, we're always inclined to take the easy route. Majority of us cannot handle the harsh truth. Remember the saying, "Women don't love you, but they love how you make them feel?" It's that emotional rollercoaster ride that keeps on her toes, which she can't get enough of. If you go on those marriage subs, women are giving the same advices to men, to be "nice" and what not. Is it working for any of them? If you really believe in their "advices" then I'm sorry. You haven't seen the real world. Women want drama, entertainment, and want something to talk about. Their currency is attention, and the less you give of it, the more they can't get enough of. Never take what women say seriously. Only look at their actions, and then, do your own due diligence. Judge them from their actions, not their words. Anyone can say anything, but what really matters is what that person really does regards to his action.
Women were made to sèrveè and follow men. Since the dawn of time, men have protected women from the enemy tribes and invading warriors and in exchange, women have provided sex and children to their man. You have all these women saying, "No, women are independent and don't need no man and so on." Well, you know that book "50 Shades of grey?" It has sold over 150 million copies bought by women. And you should already know, what it talks about. Getting Domìnated and being owned for a lack of better word, is in every women's primal instinct. Why? Because she a women, and she's naturally submissive. But... to the right guy. The same fèminist who's "hating" on men all day, in the dark depths of the night she's willing to get chained/tied up/handcuffed and be shown her place by the right guy. When it comes to her primal instinct and biological urge, she'll forget all the fèmìnist nonsense in a flash. Fèmìnists are the biggest Hypocrites I've ever met in my life. Fèminism was the biggest shi test known to mankind, and as long as you don't take them seriously, you'll be good.
Do you really believe that unmarried 30 something year old "strong and independent women" who is at a "high position" at her workplace, is happy deep down? Nope. She's low-key miserable. Not me saying, read them statistics below. She deeply wishes she can go home to her children greeting her with a huge smile, saying "Hey mama" and then hugging her kids, and showing them affection. And she deeply wishes, she could serve her man in whatever way he wants her to. But the catch is, as long as the man is strong, dominating, stoic and on his purpose. Women always want to be beneath their man, and in his protection no matter how much "independence" they claim. The world can go to hell, or become a "matriarchal" society, but deep down, a women's primal and biological instincts will always be the same.
Now before the thought police go like, "What his source?" It must be "tRuSt mE BrO!" For you jokers, I have linked all the sources to support my "claims."
Nice guys finish last study. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/A:1025894203368
Short term relationships vs Long Term, What do women look for in ltr vs str? Alpha/beta etc https://www.vice.com/en/article/ae5xn4/why-women-want-to-fuck-bad-boys
Women rate men in either 2 categories https://bpspsychub.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1348/000712609X435733
Hybristophillia (Why serial killers have received thousands of lover letters in jail, and what makes them so attractive to women?) https://www.aetv.com/real-crime/why-are-some-women-sexually-attracted-to-serial-killers
Career women are more likely to be single and depressed in the long run than women who married early. https://www.elle.com/culture/career-politics/news/a19959/female-bosses-depression/
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2033806/Depression-women-doubles-1970s-try-all.html
https://www.yourtango.com/2014241436/why-powerful-women-are-more-likely-be-depressed-than-men
Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy has sold 100m copies worldwide
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(There was this discussion in the comments, and I thought I should include it while uploading this post to this website)
u/Haani07
This post is absolute bś.
To sum it up in one sentence, women want a strong, dominating, adventurous guy who isn't hesitant to take any risks, is cold stone stoic who doesn't get emotionally affected by anything, and dominates her properly to let her know who's incharge
If you do this and you're an average looking guy she will considèr you a creep and if you try to "dominate her" she will report you for sèxual harassment. This is possibly the WORST piece of advice on this sub. GUYS NEVER TRY THIS.
If there is a 5/10 guy, but he's overly confident, knows what he's doing, women will rather want to be with him vs a guy who is 10/10, but he doesn't know what he's doing.
Cope. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The only reason why this post got upvoted so much is because it sells hope to average looking guys as if they have a chance. When the truth is they have no chance besides left over women. That's their fate.
All my colleagues who are average looking in their 30s and 40s are single and pay for sèx because that's the only way they can get women. Sure some date here and there but the women they are with are uglier than some transsexùals. Idc I'm just being dead honest. You would never date a fat, short (karen) haircut woman with tattoos who is in her 40s and consider that some sort of accomplishment. Thats the women they are with..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Whereas one of my other colleagues who is also in his early 30s, but happens to be 6'5 and above average in overall looks, managed to pull an attractive fit blonde waitress at work and they have been dating for 3 years now.
And his personality is not even that pronounced. He doesn't need to "dominate" anyone. He is not the most charismatic guy, but he is polite and has good manners and has a decent sense of humour. Nothing special or "different". In fact you can call him a truly nice guy. The exact opposite of the advice you are recommending.
Average guys can only pay for sèx or marry leftover women. That's the reason why average guys try to earn money to get married. Money is the only thing they have to offer women.
Edit: The only anomaly I have genuinely found to this is guys who thugmaxx (drùg dealing more specifically). They can pull average/above average younger looking women despite being buťť uglý. Now if you want to do that, I have no words for you. But women do find it attractive, and I also have no words for them either. Women are truly deficient in intellect and religion.
u/FarFromAverage7866
When the truth is they have no chance besides left over women. That's their fate.
Of course, and let me clarify this post was Not meant for finding a "righteous women for marriage." As we all know, the real fate of Muslim men especially in the West is marrying a former hoè, who is broken and who he will never be able to keep "happy." This is the fate for most. And they may get divorced ràped or will be in a miserable sèxless marriage with her using sex as a weapon.
All my colleagues
This is subjective to your pov. I've served hundreds of tables. Majority of them weren't married but rather were bf/gf. And these guys were not necessarily "chad" and their gf was not like your tùrk, no comparison with her 😂😂😂 but these girls were average. Who one would say "decent." Were these guys the "safe" option in her eyes? I don't know. But they looked "happy."
Average guys can only pay for sèx or marry leftover women. That's the reason why average guys try to earn money to get married. Money is the only thing they have to offer women.
Of course. But.. I remember there used to be lots of singles. And majority of these girls were in college and university. In their late teens and early 20s. At this time, they don't care about money. Their material needs are met thanks to Daddies money who's funding her college and other things. At this time she wants to bounce on "alpha" còck and wants drama, entertainment and that "emotional rollercoaster. And in your edited comment, you mentioned "thug" Maxx while I don't know if their BFS were "thugg Maxx" but they sure were plate maxxing and keeping their chick's on the "edge."
The 20/80 rule always comes into play. But these 20% of top men, all aren't "Chad's" while they may still have "status" and money. Take Harvey Weinstein for example. Guy was fat and ùgly, yet he was sleeping with A list celebs. Why? Because he had status and power, and these chicks wanted roles. But where he went wrong is, when metoo came along, and the chick's snaked on him. Why? Because they weren't truly sexually attracted to him. And that's were most Muslim men get snaked. They marry thinking their doctor degree, or their higher salary will keep her panties wet, when we all know that's cope strategy. They're fùcked big time.
At the end of the day, sexual attraction matters the most while the r-p "gurus" claim game works, and it may, but it never beat "chad."
but the women they are with are uglier than some transsexùals
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
u/Haani07
This is subjective to your pov. I've served hundreds of tables. Majority of them weren't married but rather were bf/gf. And these guys were not necessarily "chad"
You are aware that some girls use guys for free dinner right? A date doesn't mean anything and unless you spoke to each and every one of them, you have no idea what age they actually are. They could be in their late 20s to early 30s but they look younger, as is the case with many women due to things like makeup. In which case, if they are indeed older, then those guys are dating leftover women. Which is my point.
Who one would say "decent." Were these guys the "safe" option in her eyes? I don't know.
It's always the case. That's what's happening.
Take Harvey Weinstein for example. Guy was fat and ùgly, yet he was sleeping with A list celebs. Why?
Because he was a beta buxx that's why. LOOOL.
The biggest issue I have with your post is you essentially saying a 5/10 guy with "game" (you didn't say it like that but you're speaking the same concept. It's the same PUA bś: just be confident bro. And guys only upvoted this because you gave them false hope.) can do better than a 10/10 guy who is socially inept.
Dude, I know guys who were literally mutes and because they were 8.5s women would flock to them. They had zero personality and were in fact nervous.
If you're truly a 10/10 you don't need to say anything. Women come to you. In fact, YouTube experiments have shown that a Chadfish account on tinder had a bio stating he molèsts kids. And they would even mention that in the messages to the girls they were chatting to. The girls didn't care. They still wanted him because Chad doesn't need a personality. He just needs to exist.
u/FarFromAverage7866
You are aware that some girls use guys for free dinner right?
Of course. There was a study done where women admitted that 70% of them, went on dates for free dinner. They had no actual desire in the guy himself.
Chad or that "alpha" doesn't have to go through hoops and hurdles. Dinners, gifts, spending thousands to get her in bed, is a beta billy move. And as your other post, "girls pay for chad" that indeed is true.
Unfortunately, if a man is going to marry in the West and he's a Muslim, he has this wrong idea that his "money, Deen, personality, or niceness" will make her marriage "strong" with him, and this is the biggest bs I've ever heard. Her exes in university, didn't have to spend 50k on a wedding or outrageous amounts of Mahr to get in bed with her. She just got with em, because she taught he was "hawt." I don't understand how Muslim men cannot understand this. Maybe, it's them being overly sheltered and not seeing the real world, and they have that "unicorn out there" mentality.
The biggest issue I have with your post is you essentially saying a 5/10 guy with "game"
Indeed, and thinking back now as I was writing in the "flow" this sentence was cope. 5/10 with "game" or whatever "confidence" will get women, but it will be broken alpha widowed leftovers. Not the women you would desire a strong relationship with.
In fact, YouTube experiments have shown that a Chadfish account on tinder had a bio stating he molèsts kids. And they would even mention that in the messages to the girls they were chatting to. The girls didn't care. They still wanted him because Chad doesn't need a personality. He just needs to exist.
Of course. That's why "hawt" serial killers have gotten thousands of love letters while being in jail because women get off to them. If you're "chad" you can do whatever, and you'll have to just "exist." Sèxual attraction can never be negotiated with anything, no amount of "game" "confidence" "money" or whatever. While the thùgs, majority are the biggest fakes. But they do manage to pull, but it's never long term. Either he gets put in prison, or killed or, he just keeps spinning plates.
u/Haani07
Nice one bro. I agree with this.
The truth is nature is brutal. Islam tries to create some order by prohibiting certain things and teaching us to control our nafs (the animalistic side of our nature).
But today we live in a free society where there is nothing to control us. And so we see nature running wild and free.
If you're an average looking man, either looksmaxx by doing haram things or just be single. That's the only option.
Of course you can marry back home. But if you intend to bring her to the West then prepare for the shìtshow to start again. If not with your relationship, then definitely your kids. They are fùcked. That's the truth.
Before the "thought police" come in barging with their comments about how "this post is only my perception." Well, I have indeed written this. But, if you can make it till the end of the post without getting a heart attack, then read all the studies that I have linked at the end to support my "claims." Also, let me clarify Reddit is not a truthful representation of the real world. Reddit is a leftist platform, plàgued and fueled by lìberal views, where you have to play the "politically correct" card, before the "wrong think" police gets you bàn-ned. So, majority of it's users live in a fantasy world being fake to themselves, and giving unrealistic advices to the users on here to make them "feel better", rather than saying the harsh truth because it will "offend" them. Let me give you an example.
If I was to go on the subs that talk about marriage and if I was to say, "I want a strong independent women, that is a open fèminíst who fights for women's rights, and me being a empowering male because it's 2022, I will give her the freedom to do whatever she likes." I can bet you, this statement of mine would be upvoted to the 7th heaven. While if I was to say, "I want a submissive women who is obedient, and knows her place in the home" my statement would be downvoted to the grounds. On this platform, you have to lie and be "fake" in order to be heard. People will say the most dumbest politically correct stuff for "karma" or "internet points." Even if I get 100k internet "karma", it's not paying my bills 🤣🤣. If a woman was to say on here, "She wants a assertive male who shows her place, and wants to be a trad wife" she'll be called a "pick me" and be brainwashed by the 30 something year old unmarried miserable feminists. While if the same woman was to say, "She wants your average nice guy, and how she only cares about his personality" her statement will be upvoted to the moon. By who tho? By all the men, who live in a fantasy world of where they think, their "personality" and "niceness" will get them women. But in the real world, outside of Reddit fantasy tale, it doesn't work that way. The real world is not a fantasy, which you wish it was.
So coming back to the title of this post, the question then arises what do women really want? You as a man, imagine yourself as a woman for a second, and put yourself in their shoes. Imagine you're a 5'3 petite blonde, who has a boring life and who doesn't know shi about how the real world works. You as a woman in this case, what would you do? You would want to accompany and latch onto a "adventurous life experienced guy" having a crazy up and down emotional rollercoaster ride, and being part of his thrilling lifestyle, because this is a far better option than your old boring life.
But the reality is, the men who approach you, (still imagine yourself as the 5'2 blonde) are all the same. Meaning, their only purpose in life is to "impress" you and to make you center of their attention, when you know you aren't worthy enough of all this. And they still keep on showering you with roses and fake compliments. You deep down instinctively know, all these guys are the same because they're playing the "I'm a nice guy and I'm obligated to get her" card to get in bed with you, and you know they aren't genuine. You know they have hidden ulterior motives (which is to get in bed with you) behind their fake curtain of "niceness" and kissing your àss. And rather than being upfront about it, they play all these games and you can naturally read through it, bc your 6th sense is strong when it comes to choosing a mate to have kids with. (Scientifically proven). What would you do to all these guys? I can bet you, you would reject all of them.
You instinctively know you have no experience of the real world, and have no actual value to provide other than your wet hole, which you know guys will do literally anything for. You know why women are masters at manipulation? Because they know, majority of the guys are desperate and will do anything, for what's between their legs. And they use this for their advantage, and I don't blame them. If I was a woman, I would probably do the same.
But then one day, out of all the "fake nice guys", you see a different guy who's not desperate to get in your panties, like all other men who are worshipping you. You see a guy who's doing what he likes, is a rebel, lives life on his own terms, doesn't fear anything or suck up to anyone, doesn't put you on the pedestal, is up for any challenge, and he will not live his life to "please" you, and knows your true worth, what would you do? You would be like, "He's different than all the other fake guys out there, and has an interesting life, and will not hype up my value which I'm not worthy of, just because I naturally came into this world with a wet hole and a set of tì-ts." And you would naturally want to be part of his life, and accompany him in his journey. Your subconscious mind will make you tingle in ways, which you have never experienced before. Why? Because this guy is truly different from all other men out there.
To sum it up in one sentence, women want a strong, dominating, adventurous guy who isn't hesitant to take any risks, is cold stone stoic who doesn't get emotionally affected by anything, and dominates her properly to let her know who's incharge and the "man" of the family, while still having a pure heart of gold. This is it. The studies I have linked, will make you come up with the same conclusion, especially, for the people out there who haven't seen or experienced the real world.
Now, to the guys who say it's "Chad only" bro. Well, who is Chad? "Chad" is basically a genetically gifted male who is a 10/10 in the looks department. I have known few "Chads." One might think these men are real models. But some of them sucked with women, even while being so genetically gifted.
Why? Because either they were socially introverted and didn't know how to pick up on her signals, or they didn't know how to make the next move. If there is a 5/10 guy, but he's overly confident, knows what he's doing, women will rather want to be with him vs a guy who is 10/10, but he doesn't know what he's doing.
Back in my first year of university before this whole plàndemìc, I took this job at a very elite place, and it was also frequented by some celebs. (Celebs were not too famous, but somewhat known.) There was a waiter there, who one would call a "chad." Every girl wanted him when they saw him. But this guy was socially introverted. He had many hot waitresses hitting up on him and he wanted them too, but because of his lack of social skills and charisma, he didn't get them. He would talk and stutter and be so nervous, women would be put off by this. There was also a dishwasher there, who one would consider a "jerk" with very average looks. But "surprisingly", this guy was piping down the waitresses, even while being a dishwasher. What this guy do? Nothing. From what I remember, he had that "idgaf" attitude and said what he wanted, and was just himself all the time. I'd never seen any person in my life, more confident and blunt than this guy. He was the most realest. That attracted women naturally towards him, because he was "different."
We as humans, we're always inclined to take the easy route. Majority of us cannot handle the harsh truth. Remember the saying, "Women don't love you, but they love how you make them feel?" It's that emotional rollercoaster ride that keeps on her toes, which she can't get enough of. If you go on those marriage subs, women are giving the same advices to men, to be "nice" and what not. Is it working for any of them? If you really believe in their "advices" then I'm sorry. You haven't seen the real world. Women want drama, entertainment, and want something to talk about. Their currency is attention, and the less you give of it, the more they can't get enough of. Never take what women say seriously. Only look at their actions, and then, do your own due diligence. Judge them from their actions, not their words. Anyone can say anything, but what really matters is what that person really does regards to his action.
Women were made to sèrveè and follow men. Since the dawn of time, men have protected women from the enemy tribes and invading warriors and in exchange, women have provided sex and children to their man. You have all these women saying, "No, women are independent and don't need no man and so on." Well, you know that book "50 Shades of grey?" It has sold over 150 million copies bought by women. And you should already know, what it talks about. Getting Domìnated and being owned for a lack of better word, is in every women's primal instinct. Why? Because she a women, and she's naturally submissive. But... to the right guy. The same fèminist who's "hating" on men all day, in the dark depths of the night she's willing to get chained/tied up/handcuffed and be shown her place by the right guy. When it comes to her primal instinct and biological urge, she'll forget all the fèmìnist nonsense in a flash. Fèmìnists are the biggest Hypocrites I've ever met in my life. Fèminism was the biggest shi test known to mankind, and as long as you don't take them seriously, you'll be good.
Do you really believe that unmarried 30 something year old "strong and independent women" who is at a "high position" at her workplace, is happy deep down? Nope. She's low-key miserable. Not me saying, read them statistics below. She deeply wishes she can go home to her children greeting her with a huge smile, saying "Hey mama" and then hugging her kids, and showing them affection. And she deeply wishes, she could serve her man in whatever way he wants her to. But the catch is, as long as the man is strong, dominating, stoic and on his purpose. Women always want to be beneath their man, and in his protection no matter how much "independence" they claim. The world can go to hell, or become a "matriarchal" society, but deep down, a women's primal and biological instincts will always be the same.
Now before the thought police go like, "What his source?" It must be "tRuSt mE BrO!" For you jokers, I have linked all the sources to support my "claims."
Nice guys finish last study. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/A:1025894203368
Short term relationships vs Long Term, What do women look for in ltr vs str? Alpha/beta etc https://www.vice.com/en/article/ae5xn4/why-women-want-to-fuck-bad-boys
Women rate men in either 2 categories https://bpspsychub.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1348/000712609X435733
Hybristophillia (Why serial killers have received thousands of lover letters in jail, and what makes them so attractive to women?) https://www.aetv.com/real-crime/why-are-some-women-sexually-attracted-to-serial-killers
Career women are more likely to be single and depressed in the long run than women who married early. https://www.elle.com/culture/career-politics/news/a19959/female-bosses-depression/
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2033806/Depression-women-doubles-1970s-try-all.html
https://www.yourtango.com/2014241436/why-powerful-women-are-more-likely-be-depressed-than-men
Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy has sold 100m copies worldwide
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u/Haani07
This post is absolute bś.
To sum it up in one sentence, women want a strong, dominating, adventurous guy who isn't hesitant to take any risks, is cold stone stoic who doesn't get emotionally affected by anything, and dominates her properly to let her know who's incharge
If you do this and you're an average looking guy she will considèr you a creep and if you try to "dominate her" she will report you for sèxual harassment. This is possibly the WORST piece of advice on this sub. GUYS NEVER TRY THIS.
If there is a 5/10 guy, but he's overly confident, knows what he's doing, women will rather want to be with him vs a guy who is 10/10, but he doesn't know what he's doing.
Cope. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The only reason why this post got upvoted so much is because it sells hope to average looking guys as if they have a chance. When the truth is they have no chance besides left over women. That's their fate.
All my colleagues who are average looking in their 30s and 40s are single and pay for sèx because that's the only way they can get women. Sure some date here and there but the women they are with are uglier than some transsexùals. Idc I'm just being dead honest. You would never date a fat, short (karen) haircut woman with tattoos who is in her 40s and consider that some sort of accomplishment. Thats the women they are with..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Whereas one of my other colleagues who is also in his early 30s, but happens to be 6'5 and above average in overall looks, managed to pull an attractive fit blonde waitress at work and they have been dating for 3 years now.
And his personality is not even that pronounced. He doesn't need to "dominate" anyone. He is not the most charismatic guy, but he is polite and has good manners and has a decent sense of humour. Nothing special or "different". In fact you can call him a truly nice guy. The exact opposite of the advice you are recommending.
Average guys can only pay for sèx or marry leftover women. That's the reason why average guys try to earn money to get married. Money is the only thing they have to offer women.
Edit: The only anomaly I have genuinely found to this is guys who thugmaxx (drùg dealing more specifically). They can pull average/above average younger looking women despite being buťť uglý. Now if you want to do that, I have no words for you. But women do find it attractive, and I also have no words for them either. Women are truly deficient in intellect and religion.
u/FarFromAverage7866
When the truth is they have no chance besides left over women. That's their fate.
Of course, and let me clarify this post was Not meant for finding a "righteous women for marriage." As we all know, the real fate of Muslim men especially in the West is marrying a former hoè, who is broken and who he will never be able to keep "happy." This is the fate for most. And they may get divorced ràped or will be in a miserable sèxless marriage with her using sex as a weapon.
All my colleagues
This is subjective to your pov. I've served hundreds of tables. Majority of them weren't married but rather were bf/gf. And these guys were not necessarily "chad" and their gf was not like your tùrk, no comparison with her 😂😂😂 but these girls were average. Who one would say "decent." Were these guys the "safe" option in her eyes? I don't know. But they looked "happy."
Average guys can only pay for sèx or marry leftover women. That's the reason why average guys try to earn money to get married. Money is the only thing they have to offer women.
Of course. But.. I remember there used to be lots of singles. And majority of these girls were in college and university. In their late teens and early 20s. At this time, they don't care about money. Their material needs are met thanks to Daddies money who's funding her college and other things. At this time she wants to bounce on "alpha" còck and wants drama, entertainment and that "emotional rollercoaster. And in your edited comment, you mentioned "thug" Maxx while I don't know if their BFS were "thugg Maxx" but they sure were plate maxxing and keeping their chick's on the "edge."
The 20/80 rule always comes into play. But these 20% of top men, all aren't "Chad's" while they may still have "status" and money. Take Harvey Weinstein for example. Guy was fat and ùgly, yet he was sleeping with A list celebs. Why? Because he had status and power, and these chicks wanted roles. But where he went wrong is, when metoo came along, and the chick's snaked on him. Why? Because they weren't truly sexually attracted to him. And that's were most Muslim men get snaked. They marry thinking their doctor degree, or their higher salary will keep her panties wet, when we all know that's cope strategy. They're fùcked big time.
At the end of the day, sexual attraction matters the most while the r-p "gurus" claim game works, and it may, but it never beat "chad."
but the women they are with are uglier than some transsexùals
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
u/Haani07
This is subjective to your pov. I've served hundreds of tables. Majority of them weren't married but rather were bf/gf. And these guys were not necessarily "chad"
You are aware that some girls use guys for free dinner right? A date doesn't mean anything and unless you spoke to each and every one of them, you have no idea what age they actually are. They could be in their late 20s to early 30s but they look younger, as is the case with many women due to things like makeup. In which case, if they are indeed older, then those guys are dating leftover women. Which is my point.
Who one would say "decent." Were these guys the "safe" option in her eyes? I don't know.
It's always the case. That's what's happening.
Take Harvey Weinstein for example. Guy was fat and ùgly, yet he was sleeping with A list celebs. Why?
Because he was a beta buxx that's why. LOOOL.
The biggest issue I have with your post is you essentially saying a 5/10 guy with "game" (you didn't say it like that but you're speaking the same concept. It's the same PUA bś: just be confident bro. And guys only upvoted this because you gave them false hope.) can do better than a 10/10 guy who is socially inept.
Dude, I know guys who were literally mutes and because they were 8.5s women would flock to them. They had zero personality and were in fact nervous.
If you're truly a 10/10 you don't need to say anything. Women come to you. In fact, YouTube experiments have shown that a Chadfish account on tinder had a bio stating he molèsts kids. And they would even mention that in the messages to the girls they were chatting to. The girls didn't care. They still wanted him because Chad doesn't need a personality. He just needs to exist.
u/FarFromAverage7866
You are aware that some girls use guys for free dinner right?
Of course. There was a study done where women admitted that 70% of them, went on dates for free dinner. They had no actual desire in the guy himself.
Chad or that "alpha" doesn't have to go through hoops and hurdles. Dinners, gifts, spending thousands to get her in bed, is a beta billy move. And as your other post, "girls pay for chad" that indeed is true.
Unfortunately, if a man is going to marry in the West and he's a Muslim, he has this wrong idea that his "money, Deen, personality, or niceness" will make her marriage "strong" with him, and this is the biggest bs I've ever heard. Her exes in university, didn't have to spend 50k on a wedding or outrageous amounts of Mahr to get in bed with her. She just got with em, because she taught he was "hawt." I don't understand how Muslim men cannot understand this. Maybe, it's them being overly sheltered and not seeing the real world, and they have that "unicorn out there" mentality.
The biggest issue I have with your post is you essentially saying a 5/10 guy with "game"
Indeed, and thinking back now as I was writing in the "flow" this sentence was cope. 5/10 with "game" or whatever "confidence" will get women, but it will be broken alpha widowed leftovers. Not the women you would desire a strong relationship with.
In fact, YouTube experiments have shown that a Chadfish account on tinder had a bio stating he molèsts kids. And they would even mention that in the messages to the girls they were chatting to. The girls didn't care. They still wanted him because Chad doesn't need a personality. He just needs to exist.
Of course. That's why "hawt" serial killers have gotten thousands of love letters while being in jail because women get off to them. If you're "chad" you can do whatever, and you'll have to just "exist." Sèxual attraction can never be negotiated with anything, no amount of "game" "confidence" "money" or whatever. While the thùgs, majority are the biggest fakes. But they do manage to pull, but it's never long term. Either he gets put in prison, or killed or, he just keeps spinning plates.
u/Haani07
Nice one bro. I agree with this.
The truth is nature is brutal. Islam tries to create some order by prohibiting certain things and teaching us to control our nafs (the animalistic side of our nature).
But today we live in a free society where there is nothing to control us. And so we see nature running wild and free.
If you're an average looking man, either looksmaxx by doing haram things or just be single. That's the only option.
Of course you can marry back home. But if you intend to bring her to the West then prepare for the shìtshow to start again. If not with your relationship, then definitely your kids. They are fùcked. That's the truth.