Hypergamy Doesn't Care Whatever You Did For Her.
Hypergamy Doesn't Care Whatever You Did For Her.



FarFromAverage7866
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Jan 13, 2022
Hypergamy is when women find a good match, she will still delay and see if she can do better, or attract a even higher value man. Or, if she found a good match, she will monkey branch to a potential higher value male, while she's "with" you. Remember gentleman, while she's with you, her subconscious mind is always telling her that she can do better than this, and she will be on the constant lookout for a "better" guy. You shouldn't be surprised as this is in her natural biology.
But is she on the constant lookout 24/7 for a "better" guy than you? The answer is No. As long as you have frame, and she respects you, and you have other options, and are on your purpose, she will stick around. But slowly, if you start slacking "frame" and make her your first priority in life instead of your ambitions, then don't be surprised if she cheats or dumps you. She likes the idea of you, and wants to be part of your life. But she doesn't want your life to revolve around her.
Where majority of men get it wrong, and I learnt the hard way as well was that, as you become more "close" and spend more time with her, you slowly start to open up and lose "frame." The worst thing a man can ever do is "open up" to a women. The best advice I got was from a senior writer here which was, women have this idea ingrained in them that men are strong, stoic and non emotional beings. Just imagine a Lion for a second. We have this idea ingrained in us that a Lion is the king of the jungle, and a strong animal that can kick ass. But say, this Lion was to show weakness and "open up" what would happen? You would shit test the hell out of the Lion like it's nothing because you now know that it was all talk, and you would think to yourself as a fool that you ever thought this Lion was so "strong." In just matter of seconds, all this "respect" you had for the lion as the "King of the jungle" would go down the drain and you would now look at the same lion as "weak." Same exact way women see men, once they open up and show any weakness. That's why being emotionally stoic and strong and showing no emotion infront of a women is very necessary.
My dad died? I lost my job? Or any tragedy happened in my life? No one cares. If you want to "open up" go cry to your best friend, but NEVER infront of a women. I learnt the hard way, and we all made mistakes. The only person that can fix your life, is yourself. Good friends will give beneficial advices and what not, but no one can make you do anything except yourself. And women? She actually fears that if you open up to her, she'll lose all the respect she had for you. She cannot fix your problems, and if you think by "opening up" to her will make her "respect" you more? That's the easiest way for you to get cheated on, and make her drier than the Sahara Desert and she'll leave you faster than lighting strikes. Always remember that Lion analogy.
Coming back to hypergamy, the reality is, the average women who is liberal minded and who went to Uni/college has had more cocks stuffed in her mouth then you can imagine. Most women are only plate material. If you think of marrying anyone of them, then I'm sorry. There isn't a bigger fool than you. After getting used and abused by many "bad boys" in her uni days, majority of women then become emotionally broken/damaged man-hating feminists, who you will never be to able to please. Why? Because she has experienced it all. Now, her standards are even higher.
Remember gentlemen, to "mess around" a women will never choose the beta buxx Dr Kareem, or that soyboy male feminist who gets applauded by everyone for standing up in favour of women rights. To "mess around", a women will only choose the most "baddest" boy ever who makes her panties soaked by even the taught of him, and after she had her fair share of fun, she will then blame those "bad boys" for being so "toxic" and she will become a emotionally damaged man-hating feminist. Also known as the broken or Alpha widowed women.
I'm a Muslim. A lot of people have a misconception of Muslim girls being "virgin" and will submit to her husband till the day she dies, once she gets married. I can testify, Muslim girls are one of the best chameleons out there preying on the beta buxxes (to please her religious parents) after having their good fair share of fun in university.
Beta buxxes, aka which I like to call Dr Kareem's who put their head down and study for 12 long hard years for a good salary (and think it will make women attracted to them) and to find a "good" wife are only suitable for her after she had her fair share of fun, and wants him for his "lifelong" comfortable income and as a "husband" material. But deep down, she wishes she could have it "all" and wishes that the Dr Kareem would be as her unreliable exes. But she didn't marry the bad boy because either he didn't stay around, or because they aren't wealthy, or of what "others" will think of her, if she's with them. (Societal pressure). So she ends up settling with the "boring safe guy" who will pay all her bills, but she will never be truly wet for him.
Now, many women think they are entitled to the top 1 percent of men, just because of their beauty. We have many simps who worship them, and because of social media validation and so on, many women think just because of their beauty, they deserve a HVM. When in reality, many of these women lack character, femininity, and genuine respect for men. The only thing they are bringing to the table is their pussy. Other than that? Nothing. They hate a man, if that man provides no value to her. It all comes back to two things which is money and attention (which beta buxx provides) or emotional rollercoaster/drama (which alpha provides). Other than that, 95% of men provide no value to her. So, she dislikes majority of men.
The reality is, there will always be a better man in wealth, status and looks. No matter how much you "self improve" there will always be a better man out there than you. But this doesn't mean you stop "self improving." The day you stop self improving is the day you die.
If she's with you right now, you're her highest option available. The day any higher value male comes along and interests her, or if you lose frame, she will be gone. All men must remember 1 thing, Hypergamy doesn't care. No matter how much frame you have, or whatever you did for her, she doesn't care. It's in her biology to mate with the highest value male possible she can find, and she will leave you once she finds someone higher of value. And this is where the harsh red pill truth comes in, and you have to accept the cold hard fact no matter how much it shocks you.
In conclusion, no matter how long you've been with her, you must acknowledge hypergamy is ingrained in her natural biology. Be emotionally stoic and strong, never open up, stay on your purpose and don't make her the #1 priority in your life. The other best advice I got was, "Whatever it is, always do less with women, and the more they'll do with you." And in the end, if you follow everything, and she still ends up dumping you, or cheating on you, then you must be stoic and acknowledge, "In the end, she's never yours. It's only your turn."
Hypergamy is when women find a good match, she will still delay and see if she can do better, or attract a even higher value man. Or, if she found a good match, she will monkey branch to a potential higher value male, while she's "with" you. Remember gentleman, while she's with you, her subconscious mind is always telling her that she can do better than this, and she will be on the constant lookout for a "better" guy. You shouldn't be surprised as this is in her natural biology.
But is she on the constant lookout 24/7 for a "better" guy than you? The answer is No. As long as you have frame, and she respects you, and you have other options, and are on your purpose, she will stick around. But slowly, if you start slacking "frame" and make her your first priority in life instead of your ambitions, then don't be surprised if she cheats or dumps you. She likes the idea of you, and wants to be part of your life. But she doesn't want your life to revolve around her.
Where majority of men get it wrong, and I learnt the hard way as well was that, as you become more "close" and spend more time with her, you slowly start to open up and lose "frame." The worst thing a man can ever do is "open up" to a women. The best advice I got was from a senior writer here which was, women have this idea ingrained in them that men are strong, stoic and non emotional beings. Just imagine a Lion for a second. We have this idea ingrained in us that a Lion is the king of the jungle, and a strong animal that can kick ass. But say, this Lion was to show weakness and "open up" what would happen? You would shit test the hell out of the Lion like it's nothing because you now know that it was all talk, and you would think to yourself as a fool that you ever thought this Lion was so "strong." In just matter of seconds, all this "respect" you had for the lion as the "King of the jungle" would go down the drain and you would now look at the same lion as "weak." Same exact way women see men, once they open up and show any weakness. That's why being emotionally stoic and strong and showing no emotion infront of a women is very necessary.
My dad died? I lost my job? Or any tragedy happened in my life? No one cares. If you want to "open up" go cry to your best friend, but NEVER infront of a women. I learnt the hard way, and we all made mistakes. The only person that can fix your life, is yourself. Good friends will give beneficial advices and what not, but no one can make you do anything except yourself. And women? She actually fears that if you open up to her, she'll lose all the respect she had for you. She cannot fix your problems, and if you think by "opening up" to her will make her "respect" you more? That's the easiest way for you to get cheated on, and make her drier than the Sahara Desert and she'll leave you faster than lighting strikes. Always remember that Lion analogy.
Coming back to hypergamy, the reality is, the average women who is liberal minded and who went to Uni/college has had more cocks stuffed in her mouth then you can imagine. Most women are only plate material. If you think of marrying anyone of them, then I'm sorry. There isn't a bigger fool than you. After getting used and abused by many "bad boys" in her uni days, majority of women then become emotionally broken/damaged man-hating feminists, who you will never be to able to please. Why? Because she has experienced it all. Now, her standards are even higher.
Remember gentlemen, to "mess around" a women will never choose the beta buxx Dr Kareem, or that soyboy male feminist who gets applauded by everyone for standing up in favour of women rights. To "mess around", a women will only choose the most "baddest" boy ever who makes her panties soaked by even the taught of him, and after she had her fair share of fun, she will then blame those "bad boys" for being so "toxic" and she will become a emotionally damaged man-hating feminist. Also known as the broken or Alpha widowed women.
I'm a Muslim. A lot of people have a misconception of Muslim girls being "virgin" and will submit to her husband till the day she dies, once she gets married. I can testify, Muslim girls are one of the best chameleons out there preying on the beta buxxes (to please her religious parents) after having their good fair share of fun in university.
Beta buxxes, aka which I like to call Dr Kareem's who put their head down and study for 12 long hard years for a good salary (and think it will make women attracted to them) and to find a "good" wife are only suitable for her after she had her fair share of fun, and wants him for his "lifelong" comfortable income and as a "husband" material. But deep down, she wishes she could have it "all" and wishes that the Dr Kareem would be as her unreliable exes. But she didn't marry the bad boy because either he didn't stay around, or because they aren't wealthy, or of what "others" will think of her, if she's with them. (Societal pressure). So she ends up settling with the "boring safe guy" who will pay all her bills, but she will never be truly wet for him.
Now, many women think they are entitled to the top 1 percent of men, just because of their beauty. We have many simps who worship them, and because of social media validation and so on, many women think just because of their beauty, they deserve a HVM. When in reality, many of these women lack character, femininity, and genuine respect for men. The only thing they are bringing to the table is their pussy. Other than that? Nothing. They hate a man, if that man provides no value to her. It all comes back to two things which is money and attention (which beta buxx provides) or emotional rollercoaster/drama (which alpha provides). Other than that, 95% of men provide no value to her. So, she dislikes majority of men.
The reality is, there will always be a better man in wealth, status and looks. No matter how much you "self improve" there will always be a better man out there than you. But this doesn't mean you stop "self improving." The day you stop self improving is the day you die.
If she's with you right now, you're her highest option available. The day any higher value male comes along and interests her, or if you lose frame, she will be gone. All men must remember 1 thing, Hypergamy doesn't care. No matter how much frame you have, or whatever you did for her, she doesn't care. It's in her biology to mate with the highest value male possible she can find, and she will leave you once she finds someone higher of value. And this is where the harsh red pill truth comes in, and you have to accept the cold hard fact no matter how much it shocks you.
In conclusion, no matter how long you've been with her, you must acknowledge hypergamy is ingrained in her natural biology. Be emotionally stoic and strong, never open up, stay on your purpose and don't make her the #1 priority in your life. The other best advice I got was, "Whatever it is, always do less with women, and the more they'll do with you." And in the end, if you follow everything, and she still ends up dumping you, or cheating on you, then you must be stoic and acknowledge, "In the end, she's never yours. It's only your turn."
Hypergamy is when women find a good match, she will still delay and see if she can do better, or attract a even higher value man. Or, if she found a good match, she will monkey branch to a potential higher value male, while she's "with" you. Remember gentleman, while she's with you, her subconscious mind is always telling her that she can do better than this, and she will be on the constant lookout for a "better" guy. You shouldn't be surprised as this is in her natural biology.
But is she on the constant lookout 24/7 for a "better" guy than you? The answer is No. As long as you have frame, and she respects you, and you have other options, and are on your purpose, she will stick around. But slowly, if you start slacking "frame" and make her your first priority in life instead of your ambitions, then don't be surprised if she cheats or dumps you. She likes the idea of you, and wants to be part of your life. But she doesn't want your life to revolve around her.
Where majority of men get it wrong, and I learnt the hard way as well was that, as you become more "close" and spend more time with her, you slowly start to open up and lose "frame." The worst thing a man can ever do is "open up" to a women. The best advice I got was from a senior writer here which was, women have this idea ingrained in them that men are strong, stoic and non emotional beings. Just imagine a Lion for a second. We have this idea ingrained in us that a Lion is the king of the jungle, and a strong animal that can kick ass. But say, this Lion was to show weakness and "open up" what would happen? You would shit test the hell out of the Lion like it's nothing because you now know that it was all talk, and you would think to yourself as a fool that you ever thought this Lion was so "strong." In just matter of seconds, all this "respect" you had for the lion as the "King of the jungle" would go down the drain and you would now look at the same lion as "weak." Same exact way women see men, once they open up and show any weakness. That's why being emotionally stoic and strong and showing no emotion infront of a women is very necessary.
My dad died? I lost my job? Or any tragedy happened in my life? No one cares. If you want to "open up" go cry to your best friend, but NEVER infront of a women. I learnt the hard way, and we all made mistakes. The only person that can fix your life, is yourself. Good friends will give beneficial advices and what not, but no one can make you do anything except yourself. And women? She actually fears that if you open up to her, she'll lose all the respect she had for you. She cannot fix your problems, and if you think by "opening up" to her will make her "respect" you more? That's the easiest way for you to get cheated on, and make her drier than the Sahara Desert and she'll leave you faster than lighting strikes. Always remember that Lion analogy.
Coming back to hypergamy, the reality is, the average women who is liberal minded and who went to Uni/college has had more cocks stuffed in her mouth then you can imagine. Most women are only plate material. If you think of marrying anyone of them, then I'm sorry. There isn't a bigger fool than you. After getting used and abused by many "bad boys" in her uni days, majority of women then become emotionally broken/damaged man-hating feminists, who you will never be to able to please. Why? Because she has experienced it all. Now, her standards are even higher.
Remember gentlemen, to "mess around" a women will never choose the beta buxx Dr Kareem, or that soyboy male feminist who gets applauded by everyone for standing up in favour of women rights. To "mess around", a women will only choose the most "baddest" boy ever who makes her panties soaked by even the taught of him, and after she had her fair share of fun, she will then blame those "bad boys" for being so "toxic" and she will become a emotionally damaged man-hating feminist. Also known as the broken or Alpha widowed women.
I'm a Muslim. A lot of people have a misconception of Muslim girls being "virgin" and will submit to her husband till the day she dies, once she gets married. I can testify, Muslim girls are one of the best chameleons out there preying on the beta buxxes (to please her religious parents) after having their good fair share of fun in university.
Beta buxxes, aka which I like to call Dr Kareem's who put their head down and study for 12 long hard years for a good salary (and think it will make women attracted to them) and to find a "good" wife are only suitable for her after she had her fair share of fun, and wants him for his "lifelong" comfortable income and as a "husband" material. But deep down, she wishes she could have it "all" and wishes that the Dr Kareem would be as her unreliable exes. But she didn't marry the bad boy because either he didn't stay around, or because they aren't wealthy, or of what "others" will think of her, if she's with them. (Societal pressure). So she ends up settling with the "boring safe guy" who will pay all her bills, but she will never be truly wet for him.
Now, many women think they are entitled to the top 1 percent of men, just because of their beauty. We have many simps who worship them, and because of social media validation and so on, many women think just because of their beauty, they deserve a HVM. When in reality, many of these women lack character, femininity, and genuine respect for men. The only thing they are bringing to the table is their pussy. Other than that? Nothing. They hate a man, if that man provides no value to her. It all comes back to two things which is money and attention (which beta buxx provides) or emotional rollercoaster/drama (which alpha provides). Other than that, 95% of men provide no value to her. So, she dislikes majority of men.
The reality is, there will always be a better man in wealth, status and looks. No matter how much you "self improve" there will always be a better man out there than you. But this doesn't mean you stop "self improving." The day you stop self improving is the day you die.
If she's with you right now, you're her highest option available. The day any higher value male comes along and interests her, or if you lose frame, she will be gone. All men must remember 1 thing, Hypergamy doesn't care. No matter how much frame you have, or whatever you did for her, she doesn't care. It's in her biology to mate with the highest value male possible she can find, and she will leave you once she finds someone higher of value. And this is where the harsh red pill truth comes in, and you have to accept the cold hard fact no matter how much it shocks you.
In conclusion, no matter how long you've been with her, you must acknowledge hypergamy is ingrained in her natural biology. Be emotionally stoic and strong, never open up, stay on your purpose and don't make her the #1 priority in your life. The other best advice I got was, "Whatever it is, always do less with women, and the more they'll do with you." And in the end, if you follow everything, and she still ends up dumping you, or cheating on you, then you must be stoic and acknowledge, "In the end, she's never yours. It's only your turn."